Let’s say you’ve been going out with a guy for some time now, but there are some nagging doubts in the back of your mind. You’re not sure whether he’s the right person for you to take that next step, or wanna spend your life with. It’s understandable ,you’d be surprised how many other people go through periods of doubt and still end up having a successful relationship. Here are some of the key signs that say: he’s not right for you.
Most men are very reluctant to commit, it’s in their nature personally or financially However, there are some situations where enough is enough , and you shouldn’t stand for any more vague declarations of independence, or what ever crap can be sounding good . You might have been going out for a while, spending nearly every day together , yet he still won’t let you call him your boyfriend or fiancée . That’s a rather big clue that he’s trying to leave his options open.Do you see common goals that actually leave the talk table and get achieved?? Or do they become distant memories ...
Whilst evaluating the pros and cons might be helpful , that’s not how relationships really work. When it comes down to it, how you actually feel deep down in your heart can be the most important factors in deciding if he’s the right man for you. Common logic might be screaming that you’re not compatible but if your heart really wants him, that’s as good as anything. Sometimes two wrongs can make a right.
Some relationships are plain-sailing , many have to be worked at. Don’t worry if you’re not sure what step you should take next, at the end of the day only you know what’s right for you.Beware of a guy wanting to control the relation but not giving any direction ... It will collapse eventually !!!
So make a cercle and write down
And these six words point all towards Respect .... Which equals to a loving relationship !!!
By:Chef Nicholas Anderson for www.culinaryglobetrotter.com